“Their effort will show you
The portion they want in your life.
Not their words, promises or
– Rob Hill sr.
Its actually as simple as that.
To some of us, words are not just enough
I have made several decisions recently based on the above. I didnt have those exact thoughts framed in my head when I was allowing the influence. I just know that there is a lot of falsehood interfering with our daily lives and when it came to making informed decisions about what is important and what is not, you need a head clear from prejudice and deception.
I came across the RobHillsr. post on Instagram. Apparently the young man spews a lot of wisdom related to our time, and I find myself agreeing with his opinions half the time (or all the time that I manage to actually read his posts).
I try not to be delusional in my dealings or relationship with people, realising that circumstances and situations play a major role in affecting the changes that people go through.
I am probably the wrong person to meet for love relationship advice, so I am not giving any per se. I am just saying what I would expect for my happiness. I am blessed to have known what love is firsthand from my immediate family. I know that love makes imperfections perfect without making excuses, it seeks solutions to problems without casting stones. Love chastises,love forgives, & love pays attention. Reason people do a lot of stuff and put up a lot of falsehood is to keep the attention of the ones they think matter.
I am not about that life please!
My wants are very simple; if you care for me, I expect you to be there for me. If you are interested in being in my life, please try to keep my attention. If you are going to say nice things to me, I will be more impressed if u do nicer things for me. More often than not I have put people on pedestals because of some really tiny but nice act. From going out of their way to give me rides/keep me company/buy me stuff/call me/text me, I understand that they have my good interests, and I will gladly return the favour. These are the nice people. These are the important ones.
Don’t worry about the relationship that failed because 3 months down, y’all arr still waiting for who to call first (shame on both of you actually) cos if it was important to you, you wouldn’t need a reason to call. Dont worry about people that miss you
but cant find time to text you.Nobody is ever really that busy, we are a multitasking generation. One word is enough to assure the next person of your attention.
Be nice people. Even the great good book says Do unto others what you want them to do for you, not say!
Words are good, but not just enough.